I just need to let this out, and if it sounds like I’m not over my Ex or still love her, I don’t. Not in the slightest.

Over six months ago, I was dumped by a girl who was a true girl next door. She was kind and generous, and she allowed me to be a true gentleman to her.

Then one night, a problem of hers made our relationship end. She was leaving for a year to head across the country, and couldn’t say goodbye to someone she loves this much. Her words, not mine.

So I got dumped for being too good of a boyfriend. I’m not going to lie: that is a hard thing to recover from. Every date I have been on since my Ex, ended up being a total hell.

I’m not looking for the love of my life, or even a girlfriend. I just want to have a girl I feel attracted to and can have a wonderful night out, even if we are just talking over a cup of coffee.

I could really use that soon, even if I don’t get a second date. As long as I can have a good time. That’s basically it.

Again for the record I’m not hung over from my Ex. I’m so glad she’s out of my life, I really am. She played my heart like fiddle and I never want her to have a chance to do it again.